Laman Nadia

Had sleep deprived these few days. Woke up suddenly at wee hours and I am scared to sleep again. I had bad dreams almost every night and when morning comes I feel tired to go to work. So what I did last night was, I took my Quran with me. Sleep while hugging Quran.

Went to office and started to have mood swing. Don’t know why. And I don’t feel like doing any work. Stop dwelling in self-pity, Nadia. Get yourself busy! Then, the next thing I know…

… officemates and I, we decorated our office for Eid. At least, we did some work because next week is going to be a busy week for us. I am so proud of our team because we help each other. And I found something interesting.

My officemates do not close to each other. It was hard to get them gather when we had any celebration/occasion. Lend a helping hand? Pffttt… forget it. But today, I realised what we all need is a partner to do a task together. If I delegate a task to one person, it won’t happen. But when two person do things together, all will be ok. The more, the better.

Why? Because we need someone to cheer us up and help us out. Doing something on our own tend to make us feel bored, lonely and kills the excitement.

I recalled my friend’s husband used to advise me, you need to spend time with your officemate/subordinate and get to know them in-person. Only then you will know how to manage them well.

We are not strive for perfection because we ourselves not perfect. But we want things to go smoothly and feel appreciated that we actually contribute to make it successful. And, friends, it’s all about ATTITUDE – your attitude to yourself and towards other people.

Secondly, I realised that I was not born as a leader but more as a nurturer. I don’t stress on the result but I care about the process. Whatever we achieve in the end, it can’t guarantee happiness. But when you happy doing what you do (the process), you will satisfied with whatever result you achieved. There’s always a room for improvement.

Am talking too much, ey? Better stop now. Toodles~ 🤗