Laman Nadia

Total of my best friends are 7. One already married with a kid and being preggy for second rite now. So, another best friend just got married. This November another one bestie will get married, the other one will take turn on march next year and another bestie who couldn’t attend the wedding also will get married soon. And my other best friend is waiting for an answer from his bf. Her relationship quite complicated. And as for me, i think i will be the last one as am still single and not in a relationship. Ya, i deserve to be the last one. Am the last one to further study for degree whilst others already finished. But it is fine for me.

After the wedding, we went for a coffee and had a nice chatting. We think that it is about time to settle down and start a family. One of my best friend’friendss future husband advised me to look for one instead of waiting for a guy to approach me. He is right. He is (much, much) older than me. He has a lot of experience so his opinion is counted.

I have friends who has not married as yet and they all in their 30’s. They advised me to enjoy life first. I have friends who are married but advised me don’t get married unless your career is stable. So, am asking myself what is my choice? Thinking harder…. i think i want to be like my Bff. Make efforts to find a potential husband and get married. Why i choose to listen to them. Because they convinced me that life should be that way. After get degree, find a good job, find a future husband and get married.

Of course, there will be many hurdles and challenges in life, to be exact married life. It is a way to make us grow stronger and mature. This is a kind of experience that we are ready to try and we can always go to each other for some advises, supports and comforts. Confident that our friendship will last forever, i make a decision to start thinking about marriage. Maybe am under their influences, but i dont mind because they are my best friends. I admired them. Am proud to be Bff with them. I just love them!